What is their style according to Venus?
Airsigns: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
Your Venus Sign is the Sign where the planet Venus is located in your birth chart. If your Sun Sign or Rising Sign is Gemini, Libra or Aquarius, you may also have the following style to some extent; but whatever your Sun Sign may be, when you have Venus in one of the Air Signs, your way of flirting is even more likely to be as described below. If your Sun or Moon is in an Earth or Water Sign, it may “dampen” things somewhat; but the “airy” style of Venus in an Air Sign will still show in some way.
If you have Venus in Gemini or Libra or Aquarius in your birth chart, when you go into “flirt mode” you tend to “act to attract” in one or more of the following ways:
Wordy. You use chatting, word-play, informing, calls, emails, notes, or poetry. You may find yourself talking more than usual when attracted to someone. You could become “a sweet-talker”.
Interesting. You use intellect, ideas, and wit to appear fascinating. And you appear “interested” in the object of your affections.
Interactive. You get others involved in banter, discussion, or debate. You become more “sociable” and want to really “communicate”.
Intelligent. You use reason, logic, and analysis. You don’t appear too emotional, preferring to relate on a mental level.
Venus in Gemini
If you have Venus in Gemini in your birth chart, when you go into “flirt mode” you tend to “act to attract” in some of the following ways:
Sweet-talker. You have a way with words. You’re very good at flirting and teasing, and can charm or cajole anyone with that “silver tongue”. You might also be tempted to be devious and “speak with forked tongue” (as the Native American Indians used to say). You are adept at adapting your style to suit the seduction.
Witty. When interested, you can turn into a quick-witted and clever conversationalist, and you love witty banter and the inviting innuendo. Double meanings and puns are the tricks of your trade when in “flirt mode”. You are perceptive of details and notice the response you are getting, so you can swiftly switch style to sustain interest.
Raconteur. You can relate endless stories about people or events or experiences to arouse the interest of one you desire.
Writer. You like to write notes, poems, or long letters to the object of your desire. You may even send love notes by fax, or a romantic email greeting card. Internet chat rooms may also suit your style of flirting with written communcations.
Phone-mate. You love long romantic phone calls, or Internet meeting-by-modem (and may even enjoy “phone sex”).
Reader. You love to share or give books, and to discuss books or ideas. You could shamelessly flirt in a book store or library or lecture hall.
If the planet Venus is in the sign Gemini you need to be loved for your mind above all else. You want to be valued as clever and bright and your endlessly stimulating conversation is sure to be one of your most attractive assets. In romance, if there isn’t good communication then Venus in Gemini probably won’t pursue a sexual relationship and you definitely can’t fall in love with someone who doesn’t know how to tickle your cerebellum. You enjoy variety in romance and while this does tend toward losing interest in one partner quickly, Venus in Gemini can be loyal just so long as you have a partner who understands your need for freedom and keeps you constantly stimulated.
A person with Venus in Gemini will keep you interested! They are charming, charismatic and are scintillating conversationalists. They can talk about anything! They love pleasure and fun. The downside of this is that they and aren’t likely to stay with someone who can’t keep them entertained for very long. Watch their hands – they use them a lot and are very adept!
Venus is the planet that represents what we value, what we love and what means love to us. It can be a person, place or thing.
When ensconced in the sign of Gemini the Twins, Venus can represent loving all three of those types of things and you may not feel like you in much of a relationship!
Venus in Gemini wants a relationship that is open-minded, intellectual, mentally stimulating and full of activity. There is also a tendency here to want to sample relationships, because in past lives this person has been in monogamous relationships or celibacy. Now she or he wants to break free – so this is not a life where sex comes with lots of rules (unless there are other more introverted aspects in the person’s chart)!
Venus in Gemini likes social and romantic variety. Like Venus in Aquarius, this position indicates a person wants to be friends with lovers and everyone else. Talking endlessly, traveling and doing various activities is what love is all about with the placement. This is a Venus sign that expects lots of independence in a relationship. Values concerning love, marriage and romance may seem superficial.
Venus in Gemini: believes love should mean never having to say, “I’m bored”; likes quotable, multifaceted people who have lots of diverse interests; attracts love by being infinitely entertaining; flirts by sharing thoughts & feelings and assigning pet names; wants 24/7 communication accessibility in relationships; variety, unpredictability, and verbal/written expressions of love are aphrodisiacs.
Venus in Libra
If you have Venus in Libra in your birth chart, when you go into “flirt mode” you tend to “act to attract” in some of the following ways:
Romantic. You seem sweet or sensitive or tender or tantalizing or teasing. Talking about romantic movies or novels or other people’s love lives may be a way of flirting for you. Doing things that seem “romantic” indicates serious interest.
Pleasing. You act gracious, charming, cute, considerate, or tasteful. You adapt your style to attract the one you desire, and may genuinely aim to please. Acting especially “nice” is a sign of serious flirtation.
Partner-oriented. You could flirt by offering to be “partners” in some activity. You like being “a couple” and spending time “one-on-one” rather than in a group gathering, so a suggestion to slip away from a group and be alone together is a sign of serious interest.
Attentive. You love to hear the person you are interested in talk of events or feelings or ideas, and you act like you are really “paying attention” to them. Asking questions about what someone said may be a way of flirting with them. You can flirt by just listening to someone with rapt interest.
Understanding. You make someone feel only they really understand you. Or you make them feel only you really understand them. You come across as being interested in what the person has to say and understanding how they feel about things.
Intimate. You prefer to be alone with one you desire, and you seem to concentrate on that person when you are with them. You may show or say that you “really like being with” someone you desire. You may find yourself unconsciously doing little things that are “intimate” with somone you are interested in, such as touching an arm or adjusting their clothing or stroking their hair.
If Venus is in the sign Libra then your most dominating need in love is to have peace at any price. You actually tend to experience much conflict in matters of romance but show your love through an innate desire and extraordinary talent to restore harmony through quarrels. Your Venus in Libra wants to be loved for diplomacy and a sense of justice. You also have an amazing need to be in a committed partnership so casual sex is usually not your best route. An intellectual connection in romance is a must for Venus in Libra. Your ability to compromise is one of your strengths in love and you tend to attract others easily through a pronounced physical beauty.
Venus is in its heaven – it is in one of the two signs it rules (the other is Taurus) and here it wants all the hearts, flowers, lovesongs and words of love. Nothing less than the complete package is acceptable to a person with Venus in Libra.
Charming, cultured, diplomatic, romantic, talented and intellectual Venus in Libra quickly turns heads. But they get bored fast and are hard to hold. It’s worth it to try to keep them entertained.
In past lives, a person with Venus in Libra had partners who were sexually and romantically crude and emotionally callous. Now this person wants peace, pleasure, nice words, pleasant experiences, and spiritual exchange with a loved one. These are creative, warm, and generally fair people who seek the same in a partner. Libra knows how to give what it wants to get what it wants, and so people with this placement tend to have no shortage of partners. Being in a relationship is of high priority to these folks and sometimes they may do anything to be in a relationships, even with someone they know they are not interested in, just so they can appear to be in a harmonious relationship.
The Venus in Libra man knows how to say all the right things. He knows how to use language to melt your heart, make you melt into his arms and cause you to think he is Don Juan, Casanova and Valentino all rolled into one package. His mind is always working, jumping from one subject to another. He enjoys looking and smelling good, so you will usually find him wearing his best clothes and a captivating men’s cologne. He will make you feel appreciated, loved and romanced. Men with Venus in Libra can sweep you right off your feet, charming you with a winning smile, and also by opening doors, pulling out chairs and consciously displaying all the chivalrous social graces. He will place his hand in the small of your back to guide you and take you hand to help you arise from your seat. He will ask you if you are having a nice time while he engages you in charming conversation. Watch as he touches your hand ever so lightly.
The Venus in Libra woman typically has a soft voice and gentle peal of laughter are not uncommon, coming from her. She welcomes flowers, and notices the little things you do to make her feel appreciated. Her mind is always active and she is thinking of one topic even as she is speaking of another one. She will be beautifully dressed and adorned with some form of red, brown, blue or green. There may be a slight edge to her as she challenges you on some subjects, but it is always wrapped in a light and gentle teasing. The only cautionary note with both men and women who have this sign is that you should know you are being offered some illusions of romance and that the bubble may burst later! But enjoy it while you can!
Venus in Libra: believes love should = 50/50 partnership + 24/7 romance; likes attractive, intelligent, and sociable people; attracts love by being charming company, understanding and attentive; expresses love through consideration and negotiating compromises, and thinking in “us” and “we” terms; f
lirts indiscriminately for attention and popularity; wants equality, romance, and lots of attention in relationships; beauty, making plans as a couple, and the usual romantic clichés (such as rose petals on the bed and long, moonlit walks on the beach) are aphrodisiacs.
Venus in Aquarius
If you have Venus in Aquarius in your birth chart, when you go into “flirt mode” you tend to “act to attract” in some of the following ways:
Original. You seem delightfully different, surprising, or inventive. Perhaps a little “quirky”. If you find yourself acting a little odd, or saying things meant to shake up or shock someone a little, you may be in flirt mode.
Unconventional. You seem open-minded or unorthodox, and you set your own style. When flirting, you may act a little “out of character” or “off the wall” or even “outrageous”. Flirting may involve demonstrating how you can “dare to be different” from others and not conform to peer pressure or social conventions; such as acting a little crazy sometimes, or wearing unusual clothing. You might act “rebellious” or get talking about “rebelling” against something with a co-conspirator you are interested in – or about “reforming” things with their help.
Individualistic. You set your own rules in how you relate to people, and respect that someone else has his or her own way of relating too. You might encourage the one you desire to “just be yourself” and show that you appreciate the ways they express their individuality.
Free-spirited. You need your own “space” and you seem willing to let someone have theirs. In fact, the more you want them, the more you may act like they are free to leave. You may find yourself flaunting the “rules” of decorum in an attempt to get attention from one you would flirt with. You may act like a “free spirit” and encourage someone who interests you to “just do your own thing”; or show you appreciate what they are already doing that is out of the ordinary.
Visionary. You seem like a “visionary” who sees future trends, and may invite someone you desire to join you in working at changing the world somehow. Talking about your vision may be a way of flirting with the object of your affections.
Coolly detached. You may appear aloof or unemotional, or perhaps intellectual. It seems an odd way to “flirt”, but it can be attractive to those who are curious, or who are not comfortable with overly-emotional people, or who want you to show your feelings more. Someone always wants to melt the “Ice Princess” or get “Cool Hand Luke” to show his feelings; so your “detached” air could be intriguing to someone you are interested in. If your basic nature is NOT to be cool and detached, but passionate (Sun in Aries or Sagittarius) or emotional (Sun in Pisces)… you may paradoxically act less warm and more cool when in the presence of a person whose affections you would entice.
If Venus is in the sign Aquarius, your love needs revolve around experimentation and thinking outside the box when it comes to sex and romance. Venus in Aquarius will attract others through a progressive, open and radical mind that isn’t going to obey traditional rules of love. This is the “rebel” in love. You value friendship and a strong mental connection in romance and may appear less comfortable than other signs when it comes to expressing heavy emotion. Venus in Aquarius must have independence and freedom in love so a traditional relationship usually won’t work for this sign. If a lover values you for your eccentricity and unpredictability then you may have found true love.
Independence, lots of space, freedom, individuality and separateness. These are what the person with Venus in Aquarius seeks in a relationship. Situations that allow for these characteristics are the ones they value most.
Venus in Aquarius indicates that in a prior lifetime the person experienced some sort of sexual abuse or misuse, most likely forcibly locked into sexual unions against their free will. This was very traumatic. Now in this lifetime, there may still be some trauma around sexual issues (for example the person may experience rape or molestation at an early age). They may have trouble forming pleasurable sexual relationships as an adult.
Aquarius is a sign that seeks freedom, independence and is very progressive in its approach to life. For Venus in Aquarius people there is a need to seek attention for being unique – being The Rebel. Aquarius likes to shake up the mix! They like to be known for speaking existential “truths”. They can also be rather voyeuristic about other’s sexual and romantic lives, wanting to openly discuss the details of the other person’s life because it is a “radical” approach to such an intimate issue (and because talking about sex and relationships covertly excites them by stimulating their mind)….but detaching and hiding when it comes to revealing their own private sexual and romantic details!
A relationship with a person who has Venus in Aquarius may not feel like much of a relationship at all. These people also typically do not form close personal romantic bonds until late in life, if at all.
Venus in Aquarius: believes love should be dessert with friendship as the main entrée; likes free-spirited, eccentric people who aren’t afraid to go against the status quo; attracts love by being friendly to everyone; flirts by sharing unusual ideas and opinions; wants a best friend, intellectually stimulating company and emotional detachment in relationships; discussing new, inventive ways to have sex is an aphrodisiac.
Sources:
http://www.astrologyzine.com
http://www.sexualastrology.com
http://www.keen.com/CommunityServer/UserBlogPosts/Specialwoman
http://sasstrology.com/
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