What is Their Style According to Venus?
Fire signs: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
Your Venus Sign is the Sign where the planet Venus is located in your birth chart. If your Sun Sign or Rising Sign is Aries or Leo or Sagittarius, you may also have the following style to some extent; but whatever your Sun Sign may be, when you have Venus in one of these Fire Signs, your way of flirting is even more likely to be as described below. If your Sun or Moon is in an Earth or Water Sign, it may “dampen the fire” somewhat; but the Fire Sign style will still shine through in some way.
If you have Venus in Aries or Leo or Sagittarius in your birth chart, when you go into “flirt mode” you tend to “act to attract” in one or more of the following ways:
Spontaneous. You act on impulse; are full of surprises; and are not boring. You may need to remind yourself of the proverb: “Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.”
Spirited. You act lively, playful, plucky, vital, fiery, feisty, or cocky. You love a challenge and play the game with gusto.
Passionate. You act very enthusiastic and are very expressive about your feelings. Subtle is not your style.
Courageous. You act bold and spunky, take chances, and will risk rejection. There’s always more fish in the sea.
Venus in Aries
If you have Venus in Aries in your birth chart, when you go into “flirt mode” you tend to “act to attract” in some of the following ways:
Impetuous. You are easily infatuated, then may lose interest if you get bored. If someone sparks your interest, your “rapid response” can get you involved too quickly when caution could be the better approach.
Direct and bold. You make your interest or intentions known, and are rarely subtle or shy about it. You can risk rejection, and recover from a rebuff. You’ll flirt fearlessly and make overtures overtly.
Challenging. You present a challenge, acting coy or cocky or “hard-to-get”. And you like a challenging conquest too. You may engage in sports or a game of chance to attract the attention of one you desire.
Competitive. You love to be chased, to elude, then let yourself be caught. Flirting is a game, and you play to win.
Ardent. You seem passionate, and love to be “swept away” with desire. You can be enthusiastic and energetic, and seem “full of fire” to one you desire.
Independent. You seem self-reliant, and you appreciate self-assurance in those you choose to flirt with. A wimp wouldn’t win your warmth and affection.
Another trait of Venus in Aries involves your head (since the head is associated with the Sign of Aries). Your way of showing affection may sometimes be to push your head into someone or rub your face or hair against them – similar to the way a dog will push at you with his nose.
If the planet Venus is in Aries then your number one need for romance is passion! In sexual matters you’re likely to be direct and bold. You’re a flirt and can easily attract others to you even though you prefer to be the one who initiates a relationship. The thrill of the chase is a big turn on in love. In fact, to prevent boredom you must always feel pursued by your lover. Venus in Aries needs plenty of attention and stimulation. Since this is a sign known for assertiveness and independence, in matters of romance and sex, Venus in Aries takes the lead.
Venus in Aries is the most impulsive of all the Venus signs! Sexual or romantic relationships are begun in the blink of an eye – but they can be finished just as quickly too.
Aries is a sign embodying naiveté, and idealism. This is the approach of the person with Venus in Aries. They are blunt, demand attention and want it without frills. Romancing someone to get sex is not exactly their cup of tea. It also means they can fail to see that someone wants to use them for their own means. They may think they are getting a relationship when they are getting a person who wants only a one night stand. With its impatient and independent nature, Venus in Aries can overlook the warning signs and leap into something that may last a night, two weeks or maybe a few months before fizzling out. Meanwhile the Venus in Aries person will have given their heart, their love, their all. It can be fun to be with a person with Venus in Aries if you are able to be very independent and take things as they come without an expectation from the start of having along-term or permanent relationship.
By the same measure, if you are seeking something purely physical and you both agree to those terms, such as the modern-day “friend with benefits” type of relationship, a person with Venus in Aries can be a perfect partner. Remember Libra is Aries polar sign and if this person chooses to let that charming and diplomatic energy surface, this could be a very good thing! If you have an intellectual rapport, it could potentially be a very satisfying “agreement” or relationship as it were: good conversation, perhaps a nice meal or relaxing cup of tea/coffee and some fiery sexual consummation.
Venus in Aries: believes love should happen at first sight; likes independent, go-getters; enjoys chasing and being chased; attracts love by inspiring/encouraging suitors to pursue and “win” her; flirts by teasing and picking fights; expects to be #1 in the relationship (and in her partner’s life) or will lose interest quickly; arguing and friendly competition is an aphrodisiac.
Venus in Leo
If you have Venus in Leo in your birth chart, when you go into “flirt mode” you tend to “act to attract” in some of the following ways:
Dramatic. You seem somewhat flamboyant; act with flair; and you make grand gestures. (Maybe “melodramatic” is a better word.) When interested in someone, you may find yourself unconsciously tossing or teasing your hair, which can be a real attention-getter.
Romantic. You send flowers or candy or champagne or roving musicians, or quote poetry. Cyrano de Bergerac had a big nose but, like Roxanne, you like his style. You love to stage sweet surprises for the object of your affection.
Regal. You have an aristocratic air and a noble bearing; and sometimes seem “glorious”. You may act haughty or hard-to-please. You expect to be respected, and will act worthy of respect with one you desire.
Generous. You give gifts and freely dispense favours and treats. You may act magnanimous or benevolent with those you favor. A single rose is not your style – three dozen does it better.
Warm. You act affectionate and friendly; and make your admirer feel worthy of your attention. Touching and stroking is a tell-tale which indicates interest from Leo the Lion. (Licking and pawing should be stifled until you are sure it will be appreciated.)
Entertaining. You show some kind of talent or artistic flair; and seek attention, applause, and appreciation for your performance. You act like an actor (or a “ham”).
If the planet Venus is in the sign Leo in your horoscope then love is a grand, romantic adventure! In fact, you’re an incurable romantic and with Venus in Leo you’re likely to be in love with love. You need loads of attention and open displays of affection and anyone lucky enough to romance you will be doused with warm, generous gifts. Venus in Leo expects to be treated like royalty in love and sex, but you also know how to treat your romantic partner like the King or Queen of your castle in return. Venus in Leo has a tender ego and strong pride in love so you do need loads of validation and attention but you’re free with compliments and have such a strong need to experience true love that once you find it, your loyalty knows no bounds.
Leos love being loved. They inspire great passion and loyalty. Their friends are usually friends for life for they know their Leo IS the Queen or King. They are fiery, dramatic and full of new, exciting ideas in the bedroom. Just do NOT must her hair during lovemaking…nor in any way make her look or feel ridiculous about your passionate encounter. Her pride will be wounded and she will leave you quickly and as cold as ice, with her head held high as she walks out the door. If you are in public and heart or make fun of her she may put you through a dramatic vignette you will never, ever forget.
Venus in Leo uses drama, creativity, flair, and grand gestures to attract love – just as it is attracted to those who use those techniques. Because this is the sign of The Queen or The King, there must be a virtually royal effort put into courtship. Lack of money just won’t do. Somehow, someway, the resources will be found to provide grand and memorable romantic times.
The Venus in Leo person is seeking to create and be in relationships that provide spontaneity, joy and mutual admiration. This is both healing and loving in their eyes and goes a long way to creating a den they will never want to leave.
Venus in Leo: believes love should ALWAYS consist of romance, drama, fun, and loyalty; likes people who stand out in socially acceptable ways (e.g., extremely attractive, owns/wears impressive things, speaks dramatically, has unique creative talents, etc.); attracts love by playing up strengths and downplaying weaknesses, and inspiring chivalry; flirts by complimenting; wants consistent (inconsistent doesn’t count!), emotionally-moving displays of appreciation and gratitude in relationships; receiving awe-inspiring gifts and positive, focused attention from an audience (e.g., mirrors, cameras, other people in the room) are aphrodisiacs (Btw, it’s no coincidence that this Venus description is the longest of them all. *wink*)
Venus in Saggitarius
If you have Venus in Sagittarius in your birth chart, when you go into “flirt mode” you tend to “act to attract” in some of the following ways:
Expansive. You show an appetite for variety, new ideas, and new experiences. “Excessive” might be a better word, for you can over-do things a bit – or a lot. You may find yourself “embellishing” or exaggerating to inspire more interest in you. You may be thinking a little “hype” would help.
Adventurous. You seem willing to explore new experiences and new places. Foreign countries, foreign food, flying, or horseback riding may suddenly seem so interesting. A motorcycle ride may seem so appropos.
Care-free. You appear to be free of restrictions; and will give a partner “space” and freedom. In flirt mode you may act more like a “free spirit” than usual, or seem more optimistic and enthusiastic. (You might also act a little “clutzy” or clumsy.)
Companionable. You want to pal around with your flirting partner, to be “friends first”. Your naturally friendly style may be mistaken for serious interest and attract unwanted wanna-be’s.
Philosophical or humorous. You play the part of philosopher or clown. You may laugh a lot, or make someone laugh. (If you find yourself making bad jokes, you are probably in flirt mode.)
Spiritual. You seek to share your spiritual path or be a guide. Or you act as a “seeker” or student to one who can teach or inspire you.
If Venus is in the sign Sagittarius then you love with an adventurous spirit and searching mind. You need freedom in love, that’s for certain. Any forced commitment or overbearing lover is likely to send you running for the hills. But at the same time, if a romantic partner can engage your higher mind and click with your ideals and beliefs then you might never get that itch to escape. Then you know you’ve found a soul mate. Venus in Sagittarius attracts others easily through a fun loving personality and infectious sense of optimism and idealism. Venus in Sagittarius will need a sense of humor in love and may tire easily if romance or sex becomes too predictable.
Adventurous, impulsive and independent Sagittarius loves getting to know new people, and starting new ventures, such as relationships. They may not last, but they can be fun initially in the eyes of The Centaur. Love takes on a fiery, spontaneous tone! You may never know where and when they are taking you for date – but it will be fun!
They play the field but can be loyal once they find the right person. This is the sign that is willing to do spontaneous activities or spend hours fiercely debating a subject and think of it as a great date.
The person with Venus in Sagittarius is seeking to form relationships that are based on the basic pure pagan delight (think Pan) and faith of love. They want a relationship to open their world and broaden their perspectives. In past lives they have experience sexual oppression and restraint, stagnancy and boring routine.
If you can inject joy, spontaneity, individuality and sexual freedom into your relationship the person with Venus in Sagittarius will be greatly attracted.
Venus in Sagittarius: believes love should bring happiness, great times, and good luck; likes outgoing, intelligent, independent, adventurous people; attracts love by being friendly, fun-loving, generous, and free-spirited; flirts through friendly conversation and making someone laugh; wants freedom, honesty, few expectations, and undefined commitment in a relationship; visiting exotic places, meeting foreign people, exploring foreign cultures, and different accents are aphrodisiacs.
Sources:
http://www.astrologyzine.com
http://www.sexualastrology.com
http://www.keen.com/CommunityServer/UserBlogPosts/Specialwoman
http://sasstrology.com/
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