Dave has Chiron conjunct the North Node and asked me if he was consigned to a life of pain. That is a hard question, as you can imagine. I can speak from experience about Chiron in synastry. One of my relationships had Chriron conjunct the North Node. His Chiron was conjunct my NN, exact. I can tell you that the relationship had a pain theme. I did not know about Astrology when I entered it. I would not enter a relationship with Chiron conjunct the NN. I have counseled several people as such. The charts will play out.
If a person has Chiron conjunct the NN, will they have a life with a pain theme? Yes. Will every minute be pain? No. Can there be many, many joys? Yes. However, when one looks back at one’s life and tries to define it, pain will be one defining theme. This is through no fault of the person. It was his chart. His chart is from God, as are all of our charts. God numbers every hair on our heads. God has a plan for each person and that plan is GOOD. I promise you that. However, the earth suit may be hard. It is harder for some people than others, too. The charts show that. However, the people with the hard lives may be blessed because they get humbled and they can find God.
I want to talk about other pain aspects, though. Certain aspects stand out as uber hard. They seem to define the person,through no fault of the person, of course. I will talk about some. The first would be Chiron conjunct the ASC which seems to be severe bullying. The closer the conjunction, the more severe the bullying. I have tried to figure out why this happens. The closest I can come to a reason is to note the behavior of chickens. If one chicken is bloody, the others will peck him to death. Most people do not have the guts to stand up. Hence, they will follow the crowd. If a person is getting bullied, they will jump in. This shows the sad state of the human soul
The hardest aspect in the chart, bar none, is Dejanira conjunct the Moon. This seems to fragment the person as a result of abuse. The person often becomes a BPD sufferer.
Lately, I have seen charts where the planets are squished together. One girl had 4-5 planets squished together in the second house. I think it was Sun, Neptune, Venus and Saturn. I can’t remember the exact planets. However,then, she had a Sun/mercury combust. Her mother asked me to look at the chart. I was kind of taken aback because I could feel the pain and the sense of the pressure cooker in which the girl lived. She had Aspergers.
I talk about the Sun/Mercury combust a great deal. I think it is one of the hardest aspects in the chart, especially when it is exact or close. The person is caught up in themselves such as a little golf ball with all the rubber bands within. If you have ever opened a gold ball, you can see that it has thousands of rubber bands holding it together. The living on top of oneself nature of the combust is the same.
Voids can be very hard especially if they are exacerbated but other aspects which mimic the Voids. I will give an example. One person had an Air Void and a full squished together 3rd House. Hence, he was pent up from communicating from both of these sources. Indeed, he felt like a pressure cooker. He had Aspbergers, too.
Another hard situation is when a person as a Void and the Void element as the ASC. I have noticed that this makes for a kind of split in the person. People see the person as having the element in a strong way, yet they do not have the element, at all. Hence, other people are confused, as well as is the person, himself.
Certain Asteroids spell P-A-I-N. The hardest place for a painful asteroid is conjunct the Moon. Think of your guts. Think of your core. The Moon is both your guts and your core. The Asteroid Sado conjunct the Moon makes for a person who is sadistic as naturally as breathing. If the conjunction is close, the person will have little understanding of it. Other people will know. Believe me. My mother has Sado conjunct the Moon, exact.
The Asteroid Medusa is jealousy from other women. It results in some sort of destruction of the native because she is beautiful. Yet, she turns her hatred on men. I have seen this play out in women who have a strong Medusa asteroid.
The Asteroid Sedna, on the other hand, is betrayal by men, starting with the father and moving forward. The betrayal is bone chillingly severe.
The Asteroid Nessus is the Asteroid of the abuser. Our fine president, Obama, has this. A person with Nessus conjunct the Moon( or any other pivotal part of the chart such as the Sun or the ASC) will be an abuser, in my opinion. In rare cases, a person can transmute this energy for good. However, I think I have seen one, only, and it was by her self report. God can change any chart, though, and this goes for Nessus or any other Asteroid.
When the Child Asteroid is very stressed, one can know that the childhood was hard. My Child Asteroid conjuncts Deja, the asteroid of the victim. I would be victimized. It is set in stone, in a way. I was. Hence, one needs to look and see what touches the Child Asteroid to understand the childhood of the native. If it is Chiron, for example, the person had a childhood of utter pain. If it is Sedna, the person was betrayed by the father badly. If it is Nemesis. The Child had an enemy in her life.
I know I have just scratched the surface, as usual. However, I don’t like the articles to get too long, so I will stop here and look forward to your Comments!
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